5 Top Risks Associated With Premarital Sex

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It is now common to find youths sharing a sexual relationship outside the marriage bond.Premarital sex is regarded by pop stars,celebrities and politicians as a pleasurable act(harmless fun)

,but the truth however remains that any form of premarital sex affects almost every aspect of human life.

Why People Engage In Premarital Sex

These are the basic reasons why people engage in premarital sex:

• Negative Peer Influence: The fact that premarital sex is now a widely accepted error puts pressure on any young person who decides to desist from the act.A teenager might give in to premarital sex because he observes that most of his peers are into it.

• Curiosity: Many youths in search of reality and trying to understand what sex is all about end up engaging in premarital sex.They do not feel satisfied with what they have been told about sex by their parents and want to experience it themselves.

• Electronic Media Influence: Television programmes, films and advertisers has also contributed to the increase in premarital sex relations. Youths are presented with pictures on the screen featuring sex scenes which leave them restless until they have put into practice what they observed.

• Environmental Influence: As stated in the first paragraph of this write-up ,premarital sex is now regarded by many as harmless fun making it difficult for the few unerring ones to stick to doing the right thing.

• Covetousness:Greed for money,wealth and prestigious positions have causes some youths to indulge in premarital sex.The guys have sugar mummies while the top-ranking officials flirt around with pretty young girls.

• Poor Parenting:When parents fail to tell their children how dangerous premarital sex is and allow the child to tour into the sex world with little knowledge of what it is about,the child makes a lot of mistakes as his peers (who may have tasted sex) lures him to believing that sex is harmless fun.

5 Top Risks Associated With Premarital Sex

• Risk Of Depression: 

Those who engage in premarital sex experience emotional damage which can increases the chances of mental depression and emotional despair.Avoidance of premarital sex affords you the luxury of growing more strong emotionally, psychologically and intellectually. it also grants you the freedom to channel your energies into healthy activities such as reading, sports etc.

• Risk Of Damaging Future Marriage

Almost everyone will like to find a mate in future.Premarital sex can lead to suspicion, mistrust and regret by partners. The unerring partner might easily believe in any gossip of extramarital affair of the erring partner.It could easily lead to breakup in marriages.Avoiding premarital sex will afford you a clean conscience and helps form a basis of trust between marriage mates.

• Risk Of Shame

Despite being seemingly accepted,there is a degree of shame that is suffered by those who engage in premarital sex.The person is considered a loose and low self-esteem is followed by a feeling that you are no longer complete. Abstaining from premarital sex will help you build a good reputation and self-esteem which is a basis of psychological strength.

• Risk Of Sexual Dysfunction

People spend huge sums of money to correct sexual dysfunctions which have been caused by premarital sex.Bareness in a marriage is often caused by sexual dysfunction in one of the mates who entered the marriage with unresolved issues such as abortion or masturbation.Abstaining from premarital sex keeps you free from these worries and helps you enjoy a healthy marriage.

• Risk Of Contacting Diseases Which Can Lead To Death:

Sexually transmitted diseases are bonuses attached to premarital sex.These sickness fill a life with worries and continuous need for medication. Why risk this when you can stay chaste and healthy? Death is a possible outcome of Sexually transmitted diseases.

You can read Ted's Story,to find out more damaging consequences of premarital sex

Facts About Premarital Sex

• Premarital sex can break up future marriages.
• Many men and women do not want to marry someone who has had sexual relations with another person.
• Couples who have had premarital sex tend to have extra marital affairs as well.
• Premarital sex can lead you to marrying someone who is not right for you.

Those who have premarital sex are more likely to have an unhappy marriage. Abstain from premarital sex and enjoy the luxury of living your life without its worries. Remember even if 90% are doing it,a healthy 10% are not into it.

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